Community Guidelines

Our Mission

East Coast Kink Events is dedicated to fostering a safe, inclusive, and respectful community for all individuals interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles. We believe in creating spaces where everyone feels welcome, valued, and safe to explore their interests.

These guidelines are designed to ensure that our community remains a positive, supportive environment for all members, regardless of their background, identity, or experience level.

1. Inclusivity & Respect

We are committed to creating an inclusive environment that welcomes and respects all individuals, regardless of:

• Gender identity and expression
• Sexual orientation and attraction
• Race, ethnicity, and cultural background
• Age (18+ only)
• Body type, size, and ability
• Experience level in kink and BDSM
• Relationship structure (monogamous, polyamorous, etc.)
• Religious or spiritual beliefs
• Socioeconomic status

Discrimination, harassment, or exclusion based on any of these factors will not be tolerated.

2. Consent & Safety

Consent is fundamental. All interactions must be based on enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing consent.

• Always obtain explicit consent before any physical contact
• Respect when someone says "no" or "stop"
• Check in regularly during any activities
• Understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time
• Never pressure or coerce anyone into activities
• Respect personal boundaries and limits

If you witness non-consensual behavior, report it immediately to event organizers or website administrators.

3. Communication & Behavior

Treat all community members with respect, kindness, and professionalism:

• Use respectful and inclusive language
• Ask for and use people's preferred names and pronouns
• Respect personal space and boundaries
• Listen actively and be open to learning
• Share knowledge and experiences constructively
• Support newcomers and those with less experience
• Address conflicts respectfully and privately

4. Privacy & Discretion

Respect the privacy and confidentiality of all community members:

• Do not share personal information about others without permission
• Respect the anonymity of those who choose to remain private
• Do not "out" people as kinky to others
• Be mindful of photos and social media sharing
• Respect event photography policies
• Understand that many people need discretion for personal or professional reasons

5. Event Participation

When attending events listed on our website:

• Read and follow all event-specific rules and guidelines
• Arrive on time and respect event schedules
• Dress appropriately for the event type and venue
• Bring necessary supplies and equipment
• Clean up after yourself and respect venue spaces
• Follow venue-specific rules and policies
• Be respectful of event organizers and volunteers

6. Online Behavior

When interacting through our website, Discord, or other online platforms:

• Be respectful in all online communications
• Do not spam, troll, or engage in disruptive behavior
• Respect different opinions and perspectives
• Use appropriate language and avoid excessive profanity
• Do not share explicit content without proper warnings
• Report inappropriate behavior to moderators
• Remember that online interactions can have real-world consequences

7. Education & Learning

We encourage continuous learning and growth:

• Be open to learning from others' experiences
• Share knowledge respectfully and accurately
• Recognize that everyone's journey is different
• Support educational events and workshops
• Be patient with newcomers and those learning
• Understand that kink and BDSM are diverse practices
• Respect different approaches and philosophies

8. Health & Safety

Prioritize health and safety in all activities:

• Practice safe sex and use appropriate protection
• Be aware of and respect health status disclosures
• Understand and follow safety protocols for activities
• Have emergency contact information available
• Know your limits and communicate them clearly
• Seek medical attention when needed
• Support harm reduction practices

9. Reporting & Enforcement

If you experience or witness violations of these guidelines:

• Report incidents promptly to organizers or moderators
• Provide specific details about what occurred
• Support those who come forward with concerns
• Cooperate with investigations when requested
• Understand that violations may result in removal from events or platforms
• Know that serious violations may be reported to appropriate authorities

10. Age & Legal Requirements

All participants must be 18 years of age or older:

• Valid ID may be required at events
• No exceptions to the age requirement
• All activities must comply with local laws
• Understand that some venues may have higher age requirements
• Respect venue-specific age policies

11. Support & Resources

We believe in supporting our community:

• Join our Discord community for ongoing support and discussion
• Connect with experienced community members for guidance
• Attend educational workshops and events
• Seek out mentors or experienced practitioners
• Access resources for mental health and support
• Know that you're not alone in your journey